I guess it is better not to speak  about foot fetish with your female colleague or close friends....that s why using a dating website is a great option. Moreover being a "laowai" it s very easy to meet chinese girls on those dating websites. Only goal of the girls who are signing up for chineselovelinks is to find a foreign boyfriend.  


Only problem is the Chinese language. Some chinese girl does not speak very good english and it might be difficult to communicate. If you already speak chinese you will be able to open up very easily.
exemple of chat with a chinese girl on msn: 

me: 你喜欢穿什么鞋子？(what kind of shoes do u like?)
chinese girl: 为什么突然问这个？ (why this question?)
me: 因为我喜欢女人的鞋子  (because i like girls shoes...)
chinese girl : 不是吧，你有恋物癖 (really ? you ve got a fetish !)
me: 对的 是这样 (yes exactly ...)
...
...

I like foot fetisch as a life style: having ladies friend and worship their feet from time to time. when I was in Europe I had this kind of "special friends"; usually those girls found some fun  having a slave, and others even really enjoyed that situation.

I was looking for those kind of relationship when arriving in China. I particularly like Chinese girl body shape (tiny, petite, small feet) and I had dreamed to find chinese lady I could worship.

The best way I found to find a chinese mistress was to use a dating website. When I lived in Europe I used meetic.com to find girl on the net and particularly mistress. Meetic is a great tool because (1) it has a huge database of girls (2) good communication tool (3) possible to be anonymous (usefull when you already have a girlfriend ...).

So when I came in China I was looking for this kind of website. After having tested 4 websites I came up with the best one: www.chineselovelinks.com.

So many chinese girls on this website I really got crazy :-). In the next post I will explain how to talk about foot fetish and SM with a chinese girl.

If you are looking for a Chinese mistress that can dominate you there is basically two solutions first you are going to see some professional and second you try to meet one through dating websites.

I will set up a femdom directory for Chinese mistress in this website. I think it might be interesting to have this kind directory with links to beautiful Chinese domina. Actually they are quite numerous, the only problem for us foreigners is that most of them don’t speak English, or at a very low level. But as I have experienced when I arrived in China couple of years ago it is a manageable problem. Find a mistress through online dating is much more challenging and it can lead to amazing results. Most of the girl you will chat with will be surprised when speaking about foot fetishism of boots worship but some will be interested in that fantasy and keen to be a mistress. This is from my experience. I will describe some technique to find a mistress using dating sites in my next posts.

I think I have got a very particular kind of foot fetish but I am sure it is shared by many men. I like small feet, i find them very cute and I love to worship them. Naturaly I am fan of chinese girl feet. The average size is about 36 (european shoe size), i have noticed that in europe it is more 38 or even 39. Moreover I like the way chinese girl are dressing, especialy in Shanghai. Looks like they love boots during winter and high heel shoes during summer. That's perfect for a shoes fetish ! 



Most of Chinese ladies are still not very open minded and when speaking about fetishism, femdom, shoes wordhip ...they might be not very keen on those habits. Most of them are for getting married before 30 without any other deviance.
But on the other hand I found some chinese girl particularly open on shoes worship, boot licking ... because I am a foreigner and some might think "oh maybe that s the way it is in foreign countries". 


I will describe later my experiences in that field but I can say I am more that satisfied ;-) 


Following are some pictures picked up on chinese speaking BBS (forum); chinese girls are amazing; i love to be their slave :-).

I am a foreigner living in Shanghai, with a strong foot fetish. More accuratly I love to worship feet of beautiful chinese women. 


I will try to relate on this website about my foot fetishism and how it applies in my daily life. I also would like to be of great help for those of you who also have a foot fetish and would love to worship feet of a young lady living in Shanghai, Beijing or another city.


We can't say that the BDSN scene in China is well developed, but it is definitely opening, and I have been surprised of some chinese girls reaction when speaking of this fantaisy.