Thanks to a comment on this blog i have just discovered this website

www.collarme.com

Lot of mistress have posted their profile on that website. Most are from Beijing and Shanghai.

Many of them have been listed in the directory of mistress located in shanghai

I stumbled upon this post on enjoyshanghai:


Girl seeking Euro slave

No money involved, this is personal ad, please do not ask how much!

Dominant young local lady with round smelly butt and wet underwear is looking for real sub Euro male to sit on his face and explore his back hole with my new toys. If you are hungry for my fresh salty juices, don't wait any more.

P.S. I am looking for slave which will serve me longer time and not only one time

Your Dom Fox

link=>http://enjoyshanghai.com/personals/male-wanted/girl-seeking-euro-slave_199112.htm

I don t know if it is a scam or something. I have not contacted her for now. Anyone tried?

Some chinese dominas are posting on chinese classified.

Proof that some chinese mistress live the fetishist way as a lifestyle.

This is an example:

http://enjoyshanghai.com/personals/male-wanted/looking-for-submissive-western-guys_182866.htm

Quite old add. I have already contacted her and.. wahou.. a real domina. Maybe even too extreme for me :-)

I like to talk online with chinese girl and suddendly  ask them if I can clean and kiss their shoes. Ok it s not working 100% of the time, but it works pretty well J

Some might turn the proposition down imediately saying “you re crazy” or something. But many are keen to experience a fetish experience and be a “mistress”. I guess it s not for everyone and many foot fetish might prefer to visit a professional mistress in china

I also like those professional but “converting” a chinese girl to some fetishism is also a great experience. Following is a recent chat with a beautiful chinese girl. You see how she is interested to have “a slave”. I have quoted only the most interesting parts.


what is the size of your high heel shoes?
size?? not big?? you like high heel shoes too???
haha..
yes i think it is cute when women wear high heel shoes
haha.. yes.
i am looking for something special  ...
you like the women wearing the high heel shoes??
yes i like women shoes and feet...
sounds special.
haha.
where are you from??
Europe
ok. I see.
i would like to be servant of chinese girl , be at her feet, kiss her shoes, obey to her, like a slave ....
do u think i could be your servant?
...I am a normal,traditonal Chinese girl.
want to know you more.
oky ....
你穿的鞋子是多码吗？
37..
how tall are you??
i am 1 72
u?
163...
I'm not tall.
have u ever had a slave before? 一个奴隶
I'm not sure.... maybe I have a few.....
Haha
哦。。
still here？
yes. I'm here.
so said u already have a slave?!
maybe.
hehe.
do u think i could kiss and clean your high heel shoes?
:P I think yes
good ..
:)
do u like to wear boots during winter?
yes.
(A)
nice ...
I think so.
haha.
how many pairs of boots do u have?
not many. 4 pairs of boots..
good .....i hope i will have a chance to clean your boots :)
you are special. I'm interested in you.
hahaha.
oh really ? ...good ...
really.
have u ever met a man who want to be slave of a girl, kiss her shoes ..or am I the first one?
yeah. you are the first one.
oky ...
so do u think u would enjoy to have a slave, someone at u r feet, cleaning u r boots ..
maybe. I'm not sure. you are special.but I'd like to enjoy to have a slave.
nice ...
what do u want a slave do for u?
make me happy every day.
it's important for me.
u know a slave is different from a boy friend, it is more like a dog, someone u can use, u can hit...
you mean many girls have you???
No I mean a slave will be like your dog, clean and kiss your shoes, obey to you, …
I see.... you can speak Chinese???
you are funny.
可以
very nice.
haha.
could I ask you what is your birthday???
Secret ..
ok. Isee.
高跟鞋你有多少双吗？
5 双
good ..
;)
你要你的奴隶帮你做什么？
我不知道怎么回答，你愿意做什么？
have you a girlfriend??
擦一擦鞋子，做你的沟沟，帮你打扫房间，舔脚，你也可以打我。。。
可以爱你吗？可以喜欢你吗？
可以讨厌你吗？
可以讨厌我，但是不可以爱我因为我是你的奴隶
很好。
你做过很多女孩的奴隶吗？
不是很多之作一次
Ok
have u got a boyfriend?
it s not a problem if u have one, as i only want to be your slave ...
I've not a boyfriend... want to look for one..
oh i see
舔你的脚我也可以吗？
:P 可以
good :)
do u wear 拖鞋 during summer
?
Yes
你也可以期我像你的马一样的？
haha.. really???
yes i wuld enjoy it , be like your horse ..
what dou think?
It will e fun. and special.
thank you
yes it is a kind of art ..
but wear could we go for that? do u know a park or something?
there are many parks in shanghai. maybe it's good place for it.
yes i think so
:P
I should go to take a shower.
ok talk to u soon
u can call me 奴隶if u want ..
haha.. I'll get sleep early tonight. so I'll be offline soon.
chat with you next time.
ok see u
will you online tomorrow?
i can t wait to be your little dog ...
maybe, not sure ...
oh... what shall I do for you??
noting, i am your slave, i must obey to u, u don t have to do anything ...except dominate me..
ok.. could I ask you why do you want to be my slave??
i would enjoy it, i hope u also like to be a "master" ..
I'll enjoy it too..
nice so..
ok.. I want to meet you online tomorrow night. can you??
yes what time?
the same time of today.
ok?
it should be ok

Yes a lot actually. But it is difficult to find them if you can’t speak mandarin. Very few get oriented towards the “foreigners” market.

They are also mostly located in Big cities like shanghai, Beijing or Shenzhen. Similarly to western countries you might find very professional one and some “newbies”.

Another difficulties  for those “professional mistress” is to have a website that is not going to be blocked by the Great Fire Wall. Don’t forget everything related to sex is forbidden on the Chinese net. This website might also be blocked L…

So those Chinese mistress are usually blogging on MSN pages or secure websites.

Example of a blog page of a professional mistress in shanghai:

http://blog.sina.com.cn/stuningqueen

 
you might want to try a google translation J

I guess it is better not to speak  about foot fetish with your female colleague or close friends....that s why using a dating website is a great option. Moreover being a "laowai" it s very easy to meet chinese girls on those dating websites. Only goal of the girls who are signing up for chineselovelinks is to find a foreign boyfriend.  


Only problem is the Chinese language. Some chinese girl does not speak very good english and it might be difficult to communicate. If you already speak chinese you will be able to open up very easily.
exemple of chat with a chinese girl on msn: 

me: 你喜欢穿什么鞋子？(what kind of shoes do u like?)
chinese girl: 为什么突然问这个？ (why this question?)
me: 因为我喜欢女人的鞋子  (because i like girls shoes...)
chinese girl : 不是吧，你有恋物癖 (really ? you ve got a fetish !)
me: 对的 是这样 (yes exactly ...)
...
...

I like foot fetisch as a life style: having ladies friend and worship their feet from time to time. when I was in Europe I had this kind of "special friends"; usually those girls found some fun  having a slave, and others even really enjoyed that situation.

I was looking for those kind of relationship when arriving in China. I particularly like Chinese girl body shape (tiny, petite, small feet) and I had dreamed to find chinese lady I could worship.

The best way I found to find a chinese mistress was to use a dating website. When I lived in Europe I used meetic.com to find girl on the net and particularly mistress. Meetic is a great tool because (1) it has a huge database of girls (2) good communication tool (3) possible to be anonymous (usefull when you already have a girlfriend ...).

So when I came in China I was looking for this kind of website. After having tested 4 websites I came up with the best one: www.chineselovelinks.com.

So many chinese girls on this website I really got crazy :-). In the next post I will explain how to talk about foot fetish and SM with a chinese girl.

If you are looking for a Chinese mistress that can dominate you there is basically two solutions first you are going to see some professional and second you try to meet one through dating websites.

I will set up a femdom directory for Chinese mistress in this website. I think it might be interesting to have this kind directory with links to beautiful Chinese domina. Actually they are quite numerous, the only problem for us foreigners is that most of them don’t speak English, or at a very low level. But as I have experienced when I arrived in China couple of years ago it is a manageable problem. Find a mistress through online dating is much more challenging and it can lead to amazing results. Most of the girl you will chat with will be surprised when speaking about foot fetishism of boots worship but some will be interested in that fantasy and keen to be a mistress. This is from my experience. I will describe some technique to find a mistress using dating sites in my next posts.