I guess it is better not to speak  about foot fetish with your female colleague or close friends....that s why using a dating website is a great option. Moreover being a "laowai" it s very easy to meet chinese girls on those dating websites. Only goal of the girls who are signing up for chineselovelinks is to find a foreign boyfriend.  


Only problem is the Chinese language. Some chinese girl does not speak very good english and it might be difficult to communicate. If you already speak chinese you will be able to open up very easily.
exemple of chat with a chinese girl on msn: 

me: 你喜欢穿什么鞋子？(what kind of shoes do u like?)
chinese girl: 为什么突然问这个？ (why this question?)
me: 因为我喜欢女人的鞋子  (because i like girls shoes...)
chinese girl : 不是吧，你有恋物癖 (really ? you ve got a fetish !)
me: 对的 是这样 (yes exactly ...)
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